I'll be your strong back and missing you

Dear, as you read this, i just want you to know that everything is going to be okay.

These few days, just hold to the ones you care and believe in yourself. As i write this, I'm not sure what you feeling, but i know something has gave you pressure. And your condition is not so good now. Just remember babe, i will be there for you and listen to you. Listen to all your pain.
I'll be the man to understand and love you with all my heart!



Just do the things you want to do, and go out for a walk. Things will be okay. Maybe the thought of you going Cyberjaya has scared you. Im not sure, but always believe that im there for you.

I love you Elicia Chong Wai Yaen.

Muacks,
Your angel of light and happiness.


Signed with love,
Stan.
-12.40am 31 Oct 2006

My old dance career

While chatting with my sweetheart, i changed my display picture to my old dance group photo.
Those were the days where all talents combined, from all backgrounds: National Gymnastics, National Cheerleaders(Male), Dance Coach, Chreographers, and just people that had the jive to dance.

This video was one of the collection of dances we had. Just to show how good(or bad) we were. In this dance "Moto", i was not featured of course.

Enjoy!

Cool Flash

Inspire the Next

Today i contacted my long lost junior, Hamdan
It must be since orientation week of 2005.
After weeks in MMU he left for UiTM.
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During the years in UiTM,

He was very involved in organising events in his university and the events he organised was highly acclaimed. It was down to earth and in-line with the working environment and industry.

He said
"quick_shaq: u were a good role model for me when i 1st step in higher ed u know... "

I guess we share similarities in event organising and leadership.
And I'm glad that he inspires others and push for genuine change within others rather than seeking approval and self gratification or finding acknowledgement.
For the world to be better place, we must always extend our hands and inspire others' and you'll never know. The best of things might happen. You might change someone's life, you might be opened up to new opportunity and greater heights.



Let's continue to inspire people and make that event management company ya! ^^

Evolution

"I'm willing to do today what others won't so that I can live tomorrow like others can't."

Let's look at the word "Evolution", in short it's E.V.O.

Everything in life is fair and comes with a choice.
We choose how we want to live by, be it our principles in life and the boundaries of it.
It is who we choose to be, and our mindset controls that.
In life, if you can't then you must, and that is how simple break thoughs can be achieved.

E.V.O. can be intepreted in two ways:
1. Employer. Victor. Option
2. Employee. Victim. Option

Life is an option, you choose.

How to make love

Caught your attention by the title le.

Achieve what you want

I believe that a student in university have time for 3 major things:
i)Education
ii)Leisure
iii)Misc

As mention in i), i strongly believe that as a student our priority is to study and concentrate on our education. This should be our main priority.
Often at times, students use their time more on to leisure such as play games, socialise and etc.

Above all that we still have an ounce of time,which is our misc time. What exactly you use that on? Be it Club work, outings, events/activities, hang out,drink tea as i've mentioned above.
But mine is business, with all the time in the world, why don't we be more entreprising?
Fork out that time to do something for our future.

I like to point out that everthing we do, we have a goal or a dream. Never forget that my goal of doing business is for my loved ones such as my family and my girlfriend. Let them be your driving force to what you want to achieve. Love them and support them.
Apart from inspiring people to achieve what they really want in life, in this business i also want to paved my way to a platfom to realise bigger potential.

Over the years, i've been telling people to change,by changing their attitude. I do this because i want to help my friends. Most of my friends, just like myself came from an rough background.
I've discover something more important than an attitude change which is perception change.
I'll blog about that some other time, or you can talk to me about it.



Along the way you'll meet great people that inspire you, let us pass on the torch of inspiration. Whereby everyone can WIN!
We used to believe that in order for someone to win, someone has to lose. But in most case we can create a WIN-WIN situation. We don't have to be victimize or letting others get the best of us in order to get what we want.

How to create a WIN-WIN situation:
a)Communicate effectively.
b)Change your mindset, being sacrifices is not honorable.

I'm willing to share and help you grow your business. As a way to giveback for the people that thought me valuable lessons that i meet along the way.
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See also:

Businessmen and People that inspired me.

Engineering vs. Management

Interesting analogy :-

A man in a hot air balloon realised he was lost. He
reduced altitude and spotted a woman below. He
descended a bit more and shouted,

"Excuse me, can you help me? I promised a friend I
would meet him an hour ago, but I don't know where I
am."

The woman below replied, "You're in a hot air balloon
hovering approximately 30 feet above the ground. You're
between 40 and 41 degrees North latitude and between
59 and 60 degrees west longitude."

"You must be an engineer," said the balloonist.

"I am," replied the woman, "how did you know?"

"Well," answered the balloonist, "everything you told
me is technically correct, but I've no idea what to
make of your information, and the fact is, I'm still
lost. Frankly, you've not been much help at all. If
anything, you've delayed my trip."

The woman below responded, "You must be in
management."

"I am," replied the balloonist, "but how did you
know?"

"Well," said the woman, "you don't know where you are
or where you are going. You have risen to where you
are due to a large quantity of hot air. You made a
promise which you've no idea how to keep, and you
expect people beneath you to solve your problems. And
when things don't go right, you would always blame
those below !"

Baby

Baby, It's hard to describe, in just a few paragraphs, the love and a friendship that grew beyond expectation and remarkably beyond our wildest imagination.

We became almost inseparable. Rarely a day went by, and never a week, without spending intensive amounts of time together. I will always cherish you my laopo and be ever loving to you. You are the best and im ever proud of you. Baby, you light up my day by just a simple smile. Laopo, you have truly touched my heart and soul.


Baby, you are my lover, my best friend, my partner and companion for life .Im in love with you always.
Together we build our dreams and memories together ya ^^!

Monitoring System

Launch!

Yay! SAPS points

At the end of this trimester,my SAPS points is half of what i got last trimester.
Somehow or rather i just love to see statistics!

Think out of the box!

"Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds..."

In recent days I feel this quote being chanted out loud everytime i come across someone that didn't think big.

I too recall of making a comment on the day when i return from my holidays and resume my trimester here in MMU. It was a comment on people. Till today that comment still hold true.

What is your deepest fear?

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

To fail

The notion that you are inevitably going to fail, is much more painful than the notion that you have failed, because it has yet to happen.

1,2,3s...

The first is think. Think about the values you wish to live your life by.


The second is believe. Believe in yourself based on the thinking you've done about the values you're going to live your life by.


The third is dream. Dream about the things that can be, based on your belief in yourself and the values you're going to live by.


The last is dare. Dare to make your dreams become reality, based on your belief in yourself and your values

Chicken or Eagle

One day a hunter went hunting and saw an eagle. He took his rifle and shot the eagle at it's nest.

He later went to it's nest located at the ridge of a cliff and acquire it's eggs.
So he took an egg back with him.

The egg hatched and he place the eagle hatchling with chicks and raise them.
Soon after the 'eagle' began pecking like a chicken. And did all things of a chicken and couldn't fly.

From being a predator to being a prey. The hunter wanted an eagle not a "chicken".
So the grief hunter decided to "change" his "chicken" back into an eagle. So he took his eagle back to the wild.

He then threw the eagle off a cliff with a deep valley. The eagle was plunged to its death.
The frightened eagle grew anxious and eventually flapped and flapped its wings. Moments before it fell to the bottom, it flew and rose to the sky.

This story tells us that who we mix with and what we perceive is vital to success.

Dold

This is Dold. The doll owned by Trystan. Inspired from the popular anime series-Bleach.

In the anime Bleach, where the Bounts are introduced as a race that consumes human souls.
Although the individual Bounts originated at various locations throughout the world, they have a distinct German theme. For instance, the German language is used in their incantations and the names of their dolls are distinctly German.

Mine is distinctively Swedish because I bought my Dold from IKEA. The name Dold originates from one of the names of furnitures available at IKEA.

Dold's statistics:

Dold is Trystan's doll, embodied as a wooden figurine of a man. Dold's ability is to manipulate it's physique to resemble and to emote expressions in most of it's forms. Because of his rough, solid frame, Dold is impervious to basic sword attacks and most other physical damage. Dold also grants Trystan the power to feel motivated and artistically inspired.

Outing: Bukit Jalil Park

During one of my trips up to KL, i went to visit a close friend of mine, Camille.

We met up at Bukit Jalil Stadium and head off to Sri Petaling for lunch. After a gruesome drive around the place ,trying hard to maneuver in heavy traffic, we finally got back on track and went to Bukit Jalil Park for a long chat.

Then we came to this lake. I was amazed that there's so much fauna in it. Camille claims that when she was younger,she used to come here and there's a lot more than what i saw that day.

Man, there are so many turtles in the lake. And damn, there's a lot of fish. The lake was so full with stuff that when i reach down into the lake and grab something. A turtle came up.

OK that was a little exaggeration in it. I put my hand in the lake and it drew attention. And so came the turtle. Curious turtle we called it. Or was it silly turtle?
Nevermind. So i grab it by the shell(8 inches wide) while it was still swimming.

Ever tried that without plunging into the water, amazing feat i tell you.

Turtle: What da' fuck you want huh?

Yeah CK and Nelson if you're seeing this. Yeah it's a turtle.

Maybe i should rename this post as Turtle Adventure or something.

Outing: Around Melaka

Satay Celup


Me and Aaron


Mollyna, CK and me




The gang


Me and my best friend CK

Travels:Take note

Option 1:
KLIA-->Nilai KTM-->Seremban KTM--> Melaka Sentral
RM0-->RM2.50-->RM2.30-->RM5.30

Total Cost: RM2.50+RM2.30+Rm5.30=RM10.10

Option 2:
KLIA--> KL Sentral--> LRTs-->Pudu-->Melaka Sentral
RM0-->RM9.00-->RM3.00-->RM10.90

Total Cost: RM9.00+RM3.00+RM10.90=RM22.90